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How to flirt in person

Flirting can make you feel pretty vulnerable and nervous, especially when you’re doing it in person. You may be thinking:

What if the other person doesn’t flirt back?

What if they reject me?

What do I do when the person is standing right in front of me?

Your own mind can be a powerful tool in this situation. If you think things are going to go badly, then you’re much more likely to be nervous. Try instead to think something like “Hey, let’s just give this a go!”. You might find that you end up making a great connection with someone.

Top tips for flirting in-person:

Remember! Flirting may work out, or it may not. Keep an eye on how the other person is responding. If they are making eye contact, smiling, or laughing, then it’s likely they’re comfortable in your presence. However, a person flirting back is never an open invitation for unwanted advances or sex. Keep checking in with the other person to make sure they’re okay, and if you ever notice they are uncomfortable, then stop.