Who am I?/Ko wai au?
- Who do I like?
- My gender and identity
- Pronouns
- Trans
- Te Ao Takatāpui
- Getting & giving support
- Talking to friends and whānau about your identity
- Being an ally
The relationships we want
- My boundaries
- Having healthy convos
- Consent
- What’s never okay
- What words work best?
- What are clear "yes" messages?
- When do you need consent?
- How do I give and get consent?
- When can people not give their consent?
First time for everything
- Flirting
- How to talk to someone you like
- Dating and Relationships
- Kissing
- Sex
- How to tell someone you like them
- What if they don't like me back?
- What do I do if I don't like somebody back?
- How to flirt in person
- How to flirt online
- How do I know I am ready to have sex?
- What does sex mean to me?
- What will it feel like?
- What to do on dates
- How to be intimate
- What to watch out for
The how to’s of sex
- How to talk about sex
- Sex techniques
- Masturbation
- Orgasm
- Hot tips
- What is an orgasm?
- Talking with your partners
- Talking with your parents and whānau
- Foreplay
- Fingering
- Handjobs
- PIV Sex
- Oral sex
- Anal sex
- Sexual concerns?
- Masturbation and me
- Masturbating with partners
- What is an orgasm like if you have a penis
- What is an orgasm like if you have a vulva
- Hot spots
- Reaching orgasm together
Safer sex/Onioni haumaru ake
- What is ‘safer sex’?
- Contraception
- STIs
- Possible pregnancy
- What's so good about safer sex?
- How to have safer sex?
- How do I talk to my partner/s about safer sex?
- Unprotected sex
- Finding healthcare near you
- What is contraception?
- How do I talk to my partner/s about contraception?
- Methods of contraception
- Emergency contraception
- STIs - What you need to know
- Types of STIs
- Do I have an STI?
- How do I tell my partner/s I have an STI?
- HPV vaccination
What is Aroha/Love?
- What is love?
- Love languages
- Being in love
- What love is not
- What is romantic love?
- Love and lust
- The five stages of a romantic relationship
- Myth-busters! Young people and love
- How do I know if I'm in love?
- How to communicate your love to someone?
- How to love?
- Do they still love me?
Breaking up/Whakawāwāhi
- How to break up with someone
- How to deal with a break up
- Leaving an unhealthy relationship
- Keeping safe online after a breakup
Dating violence
- What is dating violence?
- Red flags and green flags
- Have you been harmed?
- Have you harmed someone else?
- Is someone you care about unsafe?
- Is your relationship healthy?
- Sexual harm
- Arousal is NOT consent
Online world/Te ao tuihono
- Pornography
- Nudes
- Unsafe in cyberspace?
- Dating apps 101
- Online romantic relationships
- Is porn good or bad?
- Is porn a good sex educator?
- What are the harms of porn?
- Where to get help about porn use?
- Social media and your mental health
- Who are you on social media?
- Making your socials work for you
- What is online bullying?
- How to deal with online bullying
- Concerned about someone else’s safety?
- Top tips for keeping safe online
- Dating app etiquette
- Keeping safe on dating apps
- Catfishing
- Meeting in person
- Is it okay to have an online relationship?
- Digital boundaries
- Healthy online convos
- Top tips for keeping safe online
- Romance scams
- What’s never okay online
- Thinking of sharing nudes?
- Someone shared my nudes
- Someone sent me a nude I didn't ask for
- I've shared someone's nudes without consent
Your body/Tō tinana
- If you have a vulva
- If you have a penis
- If you are intersex
- Transitioning
- Pleasure and Masturbation
- Female puberty
- Vulva, vagina and everything else?
- Periods
- Male puberty
- Penis & testicles
Getting help and support
Helplines
Free support from a trained counsellor at 1737
Youthline:
Lifeline:
Or Text HELP to
Support, information, resources and advocacy for queer gender diverse and Takatāpui intersex youth
Support for depression
Support for those experiencing sexual harm