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Everyone’s first time is different.

Perhaps you are about to have sex for the first time in your life, or for the first time with a new partner. The important thing is that you and the person you are thinking of have sex with feel prepared and are both aware of, and comfortable with what is going to happen.

Remember too, that if it doesn’t quite work out how you were both expecting, that’s okay.

Sex doesn’t need to be perfect, but it needs to be safe and consensual every time. being safe means using protection such as condoms and dental dams.

Are you ready to get it on? Make sure you watch the following video first. The best Aotearoa comedians offer you some important tips.

The First Time - The REAL Sex Talk
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