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An orgasm is usually a sudden, strong feeling or rush of pleasure during sexual activity that often ends in ejaculation, often known as ‘cumming’.

Sex is about pleasure, not orgasms. While orgasms can feel great, they shouldn’t be the goal of having sex. Sometimes people call an orgasm 'finishing', but it doesn't necessarily mean sex is over! Orgasms are not a measure of how successful or ‘good’ sex is, and everyone’s experience with them will be different.

Remember! As long as both you and your partner/s are comfortable and feel pleasure during sex, then it will be a success!

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